Donna Gaines - A Misfit's Manifesto; The Spiritual Journey of a Rock & Roll Heart

Publisher: Villard Books; Year: 2003; Format: Book

I don't even know where to start with a review for this book as it is 380 pages long, and it has taken me a good while to get through it. Many books occupying my book shelves were bought a long time ago, but I am only getting to them in recent days and months, one by one. I wouldn't even remember where I got this memoir by Donna Gaines, but that's not the point here. In my honest opinion, this book could have easily been just 250 pages long, and it would have packed everything of interest in, which would have helped with the flow of this memoir. Instead I must say that in parts this is a difficult book to get through, but in the end it's definitely worth to read from cover to cover. Dr. Gaines is a well known sociologist and cultural examiner, and her memoir really covers her entire life with its many ups and downs up until publication of this book. The early part of the book covering her childhood and jewish upbringing in Rockaway Beach is for the most part interesting and educational, especially if one wants to gain knowledge how that particular part of Queens was developing back in the '50s and '60s, really fascinating. Donna was from her childhood onward a music fanatic, and early on she developed a real love for doo wop, later to be replaced by the likes of Frank Zappa. It should come as no surprise that one of the most interesting parts of the book, at least for me, is the part when Donna moved out to Long Island and started dating a member of legendary punk'n'roll act The Slugs. That's where I really got into this book, and enjoyed every single bit of it. Other bands that get quite a bit of mentioning due to also being from Long Island include Corpse Grinders, Nihilistics, Sea Monster and a few others. Her stories from Slugland, as she referred to the band members and extended family members and fans, are often hilarious, funny and definitely rock'n'roll. One musician Donna really admired was Johnny Thunders, and good ole' Johnny is being celebrated in many pages throughout the book. The Ramones get mentioned a lot too, but it isn't until very late in the book that Donna actually gets to meet Joey, Johnny and the rest of the gang. 'Life in the Post-Ramones empire of NYC' is another great chapter covering Donna's friendship with Joey Ramone, up until his tragic death. Really touching, sweet and an absolute highlight of this book. In between all these musical anecdotes there is a lot of ground covered that pertains to personal issues Donna was getting through, such as fighting alcoholism, drug overdoses in her circle of friends, and above all also many issues related to her blood family. Many of these parts are not always interesting, often too detailed and messy to get through, but as I said, in the end it's all worth it. All in all this should appeal to New Yorkers, as they would be the ones understanding the finesses the best. As someone that has moved to this city not that long ago, I didn't experience difficulties understanding the geographical aspects of the stories, but would have probably appreciated it even more had I been brought up here. In conclusion I must say that if you decide to pick up this book, be patient, but rest assured that you can learn a good lesson about life and human beings, amongst some entertaining rock'n'roll stories.